Regretfully, have to agree with you 100%.
I'm a huge Android fanboy & can't get on with IOS but, even I have to say that Android Auto, once superb, is going through a tough spot at the moment.
Considering its raison d'etre was to provide safe interaction, it's now downright dangerous & should be suspended until they can be bothered to fix the issues.
They'll probably get sued in the US and, if they do, they'll get no sympathy from me.
(I say this in contradiction to my previous posts. We can all be sensible & avoid low-level interactions whilst driving but.....now, a new WhatsApp message might take 5 stabs to play ).